Monday, November 30, 2015

What Kinds of Goals Are Right For You?

In October and November we ran a contest at our gym. People got raffle tickets for doing various things, including for setting and reaching a monthly goal. Everyone was responsible for choosing their goal and keeping track of their progress.

Something very interesting happened during those two months that I wasn't really expecting.

Everyone's goals could be divided into two categories. They were either performance goals (performing a certain amount of pushups with good form) or weight loss goals (losing 5 lbs.).

Here is the interesting thing:
The people who had performance goals had great success in hitting them.
The people who had weight loss goals did not have great success or even good success, really.

Something else I noticed was the fact that those with performance goals came into the gym with focus and enthusiasm. If their goal was to hit a 95lb. squat and it was squat day they were into it and when they hit their number they were pumped up and proud!

In stark contrast many of the people with weight loss goals didn't even remember what their goal was!

I don't want this to be a long posting so I'm not going to go into all the reasons I believe this to be the case but I will point out one thing I've seen many times over:

When someone's only measure of success is a number on a scale they'll never be happy with their progress and they'll most likely never see much in the way of lasting results.

Why do I believe this to be the case? I think it has to do with wanting to accomplish something out of either a positive or negative mindset. People coming from a positive mindset tend to understand that weight loss isn't the real goal. It's what the weight loss can do for you. People coming from a negative mindset just don't see that and can miss much of the good, aside from weight loss that comes from exercise.

I've had clients drop body fat, fit into clothes that haven't fit in years, feel better and get stronger and not enjoy any of it because the number on the scale didn't change enough.

On the flip side, I've had people enjoy the fact that they've dropped body fat, fit into their clothes better, feel better and gotten stronger and as a side note also enjoyed seeing the scale numbe drop.

Which of these two outlooks do you feel will result in better long-term success?

I'll just finish up by saying that the more I do this the more I see that someones mind-set, not their diet or workout plan is actually the most important determining factor in their success. I've seen many people make that switch and it's truly a wonderful thing to behold.

Have a great day!

Mitch Rothbardt, CPT, PN Lean Eating Coach, FMS
2861 Grove Way in Castro Valley
510-754-7113
I Help People Discover Their Strength!

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

It's A Mom Thing, You Wouldn't Understand

Mothers are wonderful. I know mine is. My wife is a phenomenal one, too. Mothers are the ones who will always love us. They'll do anything for us. They'll worry about us from the time we're born and never stop. My Mom always tells me, "I'm always going to be your mother." We love them for that.

Mothers put everyone else first. Their families, their jobs. If something needs to get done for someone they love they're the ones who step up and get it done. Usually before thinking of anything they might want or need for themselves. Many mothers I know actually feel a little guilty about doing things for themselves.

Here's what I'd like to tell them. I know it feels like the world is on your shoulders, but we want you to get the things you want and need and we want you to spend time doing things you'd like to do. How does this relate to fitness? Well, one of the most common reasons for not exercising is time. Everyone needs to take some time for themselves and I know that if you're a mother, your husband and kids want you to be happy and healthy.

That's all I have to say about it. I just hope that if you're a mother you understand how special you are to the people around you and know that it's OK to do some things for yourself every once in a while. Believe me when I say they want that for you, too.

Have a great day!

Mitch Rothbardt, CPT, PN Lean Eating Coach, FMS
2861 Grove Way in Castro Valley
510-754-7113
I Help People Discover Their Strength!